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爱情不是交易品 lve i nt like rchandie（第1页）
佚名
Anonymous
AreaderinFlorida，aarentlybruisedbysomeersonalexerience，writesintocomlain，
"IfIstealanickelsworthofmerchandise，Iamathiefandunished;butifIstealtheloveofanotherswife，Iamfree。
"
Thisisarevalentmisconcetioninmanyeolesminds—thatlove，likemerchandise，canbe
"stolen
"。Numerousstates，infact，haveenactedlawsallowingdamagesfor
"alienationofaffections
"。
Butloveisnotacommodity;therealthingcannotbebought，sold，tradedorstolen。Itisanactofthewill，aturningoftheemotions，achangeintheclimateoftheersonality。
Whenahusbandorwifeis
"stolen
"byanothererson，thathusbandorwifewasalreadyrieforthestealing，andwasalreadyredisosedtowardanewartner。The
"lovebandit
"wasonlytakingwhatwaswaitingtobetaken，whatwantedtobetaken。
Wetendtotreatersonslikegoods。Weevenseakofchildren
"belonging
"totheirarents。Butnobody
"belongs
"toanyoneelse。Childrenareentrustedtotheirarents，andiftheirarentsdonottreatthemroerly，thestatehasarighttoremovethemfromtheirarentstrusteeshi。
Mostofus，whenyoung，hadtheexerienceofasweetheartbeingtakenfromusbysomebodymoreattractiveandmoreaealing。Atthetime，wemayhaveresentedthisintruder—butaswegrewolder，werecognizedthatthesweethearthadneverbeenourstobeginwith。Itwasnottheintruderthat
"caused
"thebreak，butthelackofarealrelationshi。
Onthesurface，manymarriagesseemtobreakubecauseofa
"thirdarty
"。Thisis，however，asychologicalillusion。Theotherwomanortheothermanmerelyservesasaretextfordissolvingamarriagethathadalreadylostitsessentialintegrity。
