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第22章 赞美的力量（第2页）
Sowhilehewasweighingmyenveloe，Iremarkedwithenthusiasm：
"IcertainlywishIhadyourheadofhair。
"
Helookedu，half-startled，hisfacebeamingwithsmiles。
"Well，itisntasgoodasitusedtobe。
"hesaidmodestly。
Iassuredhimthatalthoughitmighthavelostsomeofitsristineglory，neverthelessitwasstillmagnificent。Hewasimmenselyleased。Wecarriedonaleasantlittleconversationandthelastthinghesaidtomewas：
"Manyeolehaveadmiredmyhair。
"
Illbetthatersonwentouttolunchthatdaywalkingonair。Illbethewenthomethatnightandtoldhiswifeaboutit。Illbethelookedinthemirrorandsaid：
"Itisabeautifulheadofhair。
"
Itoldthisstoryonceinublicandamanaskedmeafterwards：
"Whatdidyouwanttogetoutofhim？
"
WhatwasItryingtogetoutofhim！WhatwasItryingtogetoutofhim！Ifwearesocontemtiblyselfishthatwecantradiatealittlehainessandassonabitofhonestareciationwithouttryingtogetsomethingoutoftheotherersoninreturn—ifoursoulsarenobiggerthansourcrabales，weshallmeetwiththefailurewesorichlydeserve。
Ohyes，Ididwantsomethingoutofthatcha。Iwantedsomethingriceless。AndIgotit。IgotthefeelingthatIhaddonesomethingforhimwithouthisbeingabletodoanythingwhateverinreturnforme。Thatisafeelingthatflowsandsingsinyourmemorylongaftertheincidentisast。
Thereisoneall-imortantlawofhumanconduct。Ifweobeythatlaw，weshallalmostnevergetintotrouble。Infact，thatlaw，ifobeyed，willbringuscountlessfriendsandconstanthainess。Buttheveryinstantwebreakthelaw，weshallgetintoendlesstrouble。
Thelawisthis：Alwaysmaketheotherersonfeelimortant。JohnDewey，aswehavealreadynoted，saidthatthedesiretobeimortantisthedeeesturgeinhumannature；andWilliamJamessaid：
"Thedeeestrincileinhumannatureisthecravingtobeareciated。
"AsIhavealreadyointedout，itisthisurgethatdifferentiatesusfromtheanimals。Itisthisurgethathasbeenresonsibleforcivilizationitself。
Philosohershavebeenseculatingontherulesofhumanrelationshisforthousandsofyears，andoutofallthatseculation，therehasevolvedonlyoneimortantrecet。Itisnotnew。Itisasoldashistory。ZoroastertaughtittohisfollowersinPersiatwenty-fivehundredyearsago。ConfuciusreacheditinChinatwenty-fourcenturiesago：
"Dountoothersasyouwouldhaveothersdountoyou。
"
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