ThemonthofJanuarywassentlanningourerfectAlabamaJunewedding。Mymother,twosistersandIwenttoHuntsville,theclosesttownwithaselectionofbridalshos,tobuythegownthatwouldlaytheleadingroleonmysecialoccasion。
Wehadawonderfultimejustbeingtogetherandsharingsillyjokes,butthedaysoonturnedseriousbyafternoon:stillnosignofthedressofmydreams。Bothsisterswerereadytogiveuandtryanotherdayinanothertown,butIcoercedthemintoonemoreboutique。
Ihadagoodfeelingasweenteredthequaintlittleshofilledwiththescentoffreshflowers。Theelderlyclerkshowedusseveralbeautifulgownsinmysizeandricerange,butnonewereright。AsIoenedthedoortoleave,thedeserateshoownerannouncedshehadonemoredressinthebackthatwasexensiveandnotevenmysize,buterhasImightwanttolookatitanyway。Whenshebroughtitout,Isquealedindelight。
Thiswasit!
Irushedtothedressingroomandsliediton。EventhoughitwasatleasttwosizeslargerandmorecostlythanIhadanticiated,Italkedmomintobuyingit。Theshowassosmallitdidntofferalterations,butmyexcitementassuredmeIwouldbeabletogetitresizedinmyhometown。
Excitementwasntenough。OnMondaymorning,myworldcrumbled—whenthelocalsewingshoinformedmethedresssimlycouldnotbealteredbecauseofnumeroushand-sewnearlsandsequinsonthebodice。Icalledtheboutiqueforsuggestionsbutonlygottheiransweringmachine。
Afriendgavemethenumberofaladyacrosstownwhoworkedathomedoingalterations。Iwasdeserateandwillingtotryanything,soIdecidedtogiveheracall。
WhenIarrivedathermodestwhitehouseontheoutskirtsoftown,shecarefullyinsectedmydressandaskedmetotryiton。Sheutahandfulofinsintotheshouldersandsidesofmygownandtoldmetoickituintwodays。Shewastheanswertomyrayers。
Whenthetimecametoickitu,however,Igrewsketical。HowcouldIhavebeensofoolishastojustleavea$1200weddingdressinthehandsofsomeoneIbarelyknew?Whatifshemadeamessoutofit?Ihadnoideaifshecouldevensewonabutton。
Thankgoodnessmyfearswereallfornaught。Thedressstilllookedexactlythesame,butitnowfitasifithadbeenmadeeseciallyforme。Ithankedthecheerfulladyandaidhermodestfee。
Onesmallroblemsolvedjustintimeforabiggeronetoemerge。OnValentinesDay,myfiancecalled。
"Sandy,IvecometothedecisionthatImnotreadytogetmarried,
"heannounced,nonetoogently,
"Iwanttotravelandexeriencelifeforafewyearsbeforesettlingdown。
"
Heaologizedfortheinconvenienceofleavingalltheweddingcancellationstomeandthenquicklylefttown。Myworldturnedusidedown。Iwasangryandheartbrokenandhadnoideahowtorecover。Butdaysflewintoweeksandweeksblendedintomonths。Isurvived。
Onedayinthefallofthesameyear,whilestandinginlineatthesuermarket,Iheardsomeonecallingmyname。Iturnedaroundtoseethealterationslady。Sheolitelyinquiredaboutmywedding,andwasshockedtodiscoverithadbeencalledoff,butagreeditwasrobablyforthebest。
Ithankedheragainforadjustingmyweddinggown,andassuredheritwassafelybaggedandawaitingthedayIwouldwearitdowntheaisleonthearmofmyreal
"MisterRight
"。Withasarkleinhereye,shebegantellingmeabouthersingleson,Tim。EventhoughIwasntinterestedindatingagain,Ilethertalkmeintomeetinghim。
Ididhavemysummerweddingafterall,onlyayearlater。AndIdidgettowearthedressofmydreams—standingbesideTim,themanIhavesharedthelasteighteenyearsofmylifewith,whomIwouldneverhavemetwithoutthatsecialweddinggown。