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第15章 走自己的路 1（第1页）

LetYourselfGo！

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Severalyearsago，IreceivedaostcardfromafriendinJacksonHole，Wyo。，whowrote，“Iamskiingwithabandon！”Iwonderedwhathemeant，forwhenIskiitisalwayswithtreidation。Ibelievehemeanthewasskiingskillfully，joyfully，eacefullyandconfidently。AlthoughIhavenohoesofeverskiingthatway，Idodreamoflivingwithabandon。Ibelievethatmenandwomenthroughtheageswhohaveledsuccessfulliveshavecaturedthesefivesecretsoflivinglifetothefullest。

1。Haveaself-resect。Thismeanshavingadeesenseofresonsibilityforyourthoughtsandactions。Itmeanskeeingyourword，andbeingfaithfultoself，familyandwork。Itmeansbelievinginwhatyoudoandworkinghard。Itmeanssettingyourowninternalstandards，andnotcomaringyourselftoothers。It’snotaquestionofbeingbetterthansomeoneelse；resectandintegritydemandthatyoubebetterthanyouthoughtyoucouldbe。

WinstonChurchillexemlifiedintegrityandresectinthefaceofoosition。Duringhislastyearinoffice，heattendedanofficialceremony。Severalrowsbehindhistwogentlemenbeganwhisering。“That’sWinstonChurchill。”“Theysayheisgettingsenile。”“Theysayheshouldsteasideandleavetherunningofthenationtomoredynamicandcaablemen。”Whentheceremonywasover，Churchillturnedtothemenandsaid，“Gentlemen，theyalsosayheisdeaf！”

Churchillknewthatonesecrettoaselfyoucanresectistochooseacourseofactionbasedonwhatisright，notexedient，andnotwaverfromitwhencriticized。

2。Commityourselftoothers。Believeinothers，andtaketimetonurturetheirdreams。Awisemansaid，“Ifyouwantoneyear’sroserity，growgrain。Butifyouwanttenyears’roserity，growmenandwomen。”

Youcanbuildintothelivesofyourfamily，friendsandcolleaguesbyrovidingnutrientsofgratitudeandencouragement，andbyinvestingyourtimeandenergyintheirasirations。Ifatreeisgivenminimalnourishment，itwilllive，butitwillnotgrow。Butifnourishmentisgivenoverandbeyondwhatisneededforlife，thetreewillliveandgrowuward，roducingfruit。

3。Turndisaointmentsintostrengths。Individualswholivewithabandonhavediscoveredthatersonaltrialsmakethemmoresensitiveandloving，whilebuildingenduranceandcharacter。Theyhavelearnedthatachievementsworthrememberingarestainedwiththebloodofdiligenceandetchedwiththescarsofdisaointment。

Theagesofhistoryarefilledwiththeheroicstoriesofundauntedmenandwomenwhotriumhedoverdisabilitiesandadversitiestodemonstratevictorioussirits。Raisehiminabjectoverty，andyouhaveanAbrahamLincoln。Makeherblindanddeaf，andyouhaveaHelenKeller。